Nothing, absolutely nothing in God's world happens by mistake.
What happened is what happened. You're not the 'villain' here, I promise. It's just what happened. And there is a Soul Reason, I promise you.
It is a spiritual principle that should be stressed.
Success in life comes from being willing to move into uncharted territory.
unburdened by the decisions of your past,
unlimited thanks to the promise of your future;
unfettered by the conditions of your humanity,
unleashed thanks to the glory of your divinity.
There are no coincidences in the universe, only convergences of Will, Intent, and Experience.