100% honesty about others is subjective and based on our own projections and values and can easily be used against is as it's always our perspective and we can be wrong.
BUT yes there are many who don't want to discover honesty, which is totally fine for them as well.
Not everyone deserves to know our diverse facets; and yes, EVERYONE has MANY sides.
At least I do
Particularly those who moved abroad for studies and work. Whenever they return home for a holiday they simply keep a low profile and even do stuff they aren't particularly fond of, just to please their parents/ family. In the end, they are still respected by their communities.
We are the same anywhere under the sun, under any roof, in the company of people following any belief systems.
One may say- in the presence of One God- in any corner of the Universe.
And what happens to us?
We'd be judged, criticized and ridiculed with all the possible words in the dictionary since obviously it's not humanly possible to please everyone.
This isn't about being or not being HONEST to ourselves. No. Rather, about taking CARE of ourselves consciously since we now know what is more mature and less energy draining owing to the valuable lessons learned via past experiences of our Being.
Be the example of what we are as human. Nothing else matters. I have experienced the same paradigm; in the end energy spent is relative.
Particularly when it involves traditions and cultures still followed which are several centuries and even millenniums old.
But being honest with yourself means to be discriminating as to whom, why and where you share your thoughts.
This is only with regards to ideals behaviour, beliefs, emotions, communications and other corporal stuff. One must know their audience.
It’s usually about having said too much to those we reckon won't comprehend YET
This is a very complex thing when mixed up with spirituality and social life. Being honest to our self in spirituality is being honest to everyone as all are one, but in social life when we show every plus and minus point to people it can be used against us.
I now understand that being honest is to feel what we feel inside and not necessarily show it to everyone around, especially if the people are not aware and conscious.
Yes, I have been an open book for quite a long now, it’s time to cover it up and let only those people open who have the qualification for reading it otherwise they can manipulate the meaning of the entire content of the book.
One must not be a passenger in the seat next to life; the sacrifice does never know what will become of the test that we place upon ourselves when we stand unified with ourselves and the universe flowing through us; what we feel as a source being free from indoctrination.
This is my last time on this planet because I am here to be the change that this civilization requires to move forward, beyond what is socially acceptable or what we can borrow in the form of education.
The issues of the time are present and this is the age of now, only. When you are dead there will be no time to affect the change that you are so passionate for.
Sometimes it’s very easy for us to lose faith and believe that good does not exist in this world...
Life keeps testing the innocent ones and rewarding the dishonest ones which is a very weird thing...