"Faith, acts promptly and boldly on the occasion, on slender evidence."
It's comforting to choose a path that seems well-lit and predictable. But, once in a while, we seem to know with inexplicable confidence that it's time to take a risk.
Moving in faith takes a joyful heart and willingness to surrender perfectionism. Those leaps, both big and small, bring us to a new level of living, thinking and loving.
There is saying, taken from the I Ching that states,
" If the beginning is right, the ending is right."
In trusting this ancient wisdom let us vowing to listen to
and follow our hearts and inner spirit, no matter what.
By making this courageous decision we assure ourselves the
best possible chance of moving beyond the frustrating and
all too familiar
struggle that comes with ignoring our inner voice, and
into a life filled with
grace, blessings, and authentic meaning.
This is the kind of life we are designed by our Creator to
experience, enjoy, and share with one another.
Let's do this for ourselves, each other, and the Holy Mother
To the bone, to the very core, that is it, this is it, the
May the brightest light shine in everyone and guide them to
their biggest dreams!!!
It is a good day to cut cords and end attachments to those
people and things that no longer resonate with you that you are becoming today.
Just open your heart and let go.
No judgements. No story.
release and be done.
Then get ready for the new energy and the new people who
match your energy today.
We say this so often to people who don't know how to just release
and be done.
So, what they are left with is repression. And then it just comes
up again later, and possibly uglier.
Release is a process of becoming one with
the Self. Then one doesn't need to worry with what others are up to, or what
they have done.
Now find the strength to let go, a hard step, but one with
no regrets. I've done this. It really makes people mad and they think you're
crazy. But that is there issue not mine. My goal is just to be happy.
When it's time to go, it's time to go. Somewhere we know
this--but we allow our bargains with reality to keep us from the truth of
But here's the thing. Repression is not going to work any better
than bargains. When it’s time to go, walk through the going as if it is a
gift--because it is.
But don't repress your feelings about it--they are also a
Every time you let go of something or someone negative, it
or they are replaced with a positive.
When we call our energy home into our hearts, honouring,
nurturing and revitalizing the song that always resides within us, our song is
energetically heard by all beings on the same frequency.
Let us sing, and in
our singing, encourage others to join the ballad of self love and devotion to
I make a personal commitment to speak my truth, so it is out
Today, notice what you are afraid of...say it out loud. Each
time you do, also notice where you are right now... and say that out loud as
Do this for several minutes. It releases fear and brings you to the
present moment. Try it. It is an amazing way to be free of fear in a moment.
You cannot breathe deeply and worry at the same time. Breathe.
Let the worry go. Breathe; allow the love and intuition in.
Each breath brings a sense of peace.
I don't remember where
but I read somewhat recently that when you take a breath it refocuses your mind
and that worry isn't there after the breath.
When looking for guidance take a breath, place your hand
over your heart, and say" my heart says..." then fill in the blank.
Guidance is there of you allow your heart to speak.
Sometimes we feel guidance that we do not want to
acknowledge. It may be a gut feeling that something is off or not quite honest
Believe your intuition, especially at times when it is most difficult
Be clear about what you are seeking guidance on. Learn all
you can about your question, separating fact from fiction, and then turn it
over to your Higher Self for guidance. Say "Higher self... move me in the
direction of my highest well on this matter...”
Then be flexible enough to be moved.
Be flexible today, I find flexibility brings spontaneity. I
love it; intuition gives you an opportunity to make a new and better choice
than the one you may be in the habit of making.
Listen and follow a new way today.
The more you choose to do things that uplift yourself and
others the more Your Spirit can shine, can heal you, and can lead your life.
Let us join together and open our hearts and shine our
spirits on all those who are in darkness and despair.
Let us join together in asking forgiveness Mother Earth for
all the ways in which we have not been her good caretakers.
Let us pray to
learn new things, be at peace with ourselves, respectful, loving ways to live
in harmony with this beautiful earth, with each other, and with ourselves.
us pray for guidance.
My prayer for the day:
I choose to live in joy this day,
sending love, compassion, and forgiveness to those who have fallen under the
illusion that violence of any sort is ever justified.
I call their Spirit back
to true self and Divine Source as a sister and friend, and continue to pray for
those who suffer their illusions.
Beauty feeds the spirit.
Beauty in nature.
One of our greatest expressions
as divine beings is to create beauty.
One of our greatest spiritual pleasures
is to experience beauty.
There is so much I am aware I really love.
I love my family
and my wonderful friends.
I love my work and the people I am so blessed to know
I love the beauty and creativity of the people and this planet.
love riding my bike, swimming, outdoor concerts, dancing anywhere anytime.
I love my tea,
good food, and good UNDERWEAR!
I've experienced some very disappointing and hurtful energy
today. It's time to ask myself "how might I have attracted this and what
am I to learn." Not sure just yet.
I'm still stinging from the experience. I know it will
become apparent in time if I open myself to the deepest truth of my Spirit.
This is what we are all being asked to do as co-creators at this time Sending
love to you and me as we grow.
inside...clearing...cleansing...electrifying...exciting...new things are
gathering in the air ...stale energy moving out.
One of the most liberating spiritual practices of all is
telling the truth, to yourself and those you love, clearing the air, and
walking your talk.
I believe in my values and my rules, but never lord them
It is not enough to speak your truth if the choices you make and
the behaviours you display do not honestly reflect that truth.
As for me, I'm truthfully pooped after an intense
and exciting week of work out to get my fitness level up. . Truthfully I am
clearing some past wounds and moving on to new things. AAAHHHH!
I am so very grateful for the gift of my life this day.
grateful for my challenges as well as that which comes to soothe.
I am grateful
for all messages sent my way, even if painful of hard to take in.
I am a
grateful and humble student this day, learning ever more to surrender my
attachments, and allow the divine plan to override my own plans.
I believe in my values and my rules, but never lord them over
Nothing should stand between you
and God, not imams, or priests, or rabbis, or any other custodians of moral or
religious leadership not even spiritual masters.
Stay away from all sorts of
idolatry, for they will blur your vision.
Let God and only God be your guide.
Learn the Truth, my friend, but be careful not to make a fetish out of your
Nothing stands between us and God and nothing stands between
God and us.
Often the problem in aspiring to spiritual progress is the flawed
Stand alone amongst others...stay true to yourself...recognise
when others are trying to steal your soul and gently move away.
And how often do we see doctrine get in the way of the
relationship with the God within.
I have watched with sadness as we beat each other up - for
believing, for not believing, for not believing enough or for believing in the
wrong God - as we stand on our high horses and preach equality, human rights
Life is a learning process, be aware of our own prejudices
and disrespectful behaviour towards others!
It's important to tune into your true "yes" and
your true "no" and not get caught up in pleasing others over
listening to your Spirit. As six sensory we can lose touch with or ignore our
own needs all too easily.
Be aware of crazy makers.....people whose energy causes
drama and upset wherever they go... it is OK to step away from such energetic
disturbances. Take care to love your Spirit by placing yourself in positive
As six sensory, we need time spent doing nothing but
relaxing. Stepping away from the routines of the thinking mind opens us to
subtle realms, the day dreaming mind, and this is where we make contact with
our higher self, our spirit guides, and divine helpers.
We need a vacation from
the left brain to visit the right brain, and it should be taken often.
Do a vibe check on the atmosphere in your home and your
workplace today. If the energy is dark, stale, heavy, stressful turn on the
music, open the window for a moment, let some fresh air in, ring some bells, and
clap your hands, sing Fa la la la la and dance for a minute or two.
might seem crazy to some but it will raise the vibration and everyone will feel
better. Blame the craziness on Jack Frost.
I'm had the most wonderful visit with my friend Petra. She
is incredible. Filled with love humour and gratitude for every single sip of life.
I'm so blessed to have all these friends in my life.
Being alive is a joy; breathe in all you are grateful for. Today
I am grateful to be preparing for the guides workshop this weekend at Adam’s
school. I love teaching this workshop and I feel so grateful for my spirit
guides help in every way.
Who or what bothers you the most today is your
teacher.....what bothers me most today is that I do not have more time...I am
learning to live more and more in timelessness.....Ahhh! Ha!
I am so humbled and amazed at the collective genius,
creativity, dedication, determination and pure love of humanity. The human
spirit is Divine.
Don't forget to laugh today! Laughter connects you to the
delights of the world and opens your heart chakra. So, share a laugh with a
friend or have a daily ritual. I like to make faces while I brush my teeth.
Have you ever stopped and realized that you're not
Take a moment to be quiet today whether it is: meditation, reflection,
prayer, quiet thought.
Allowing yourself a moment of solitude and peace will
feed your spirit and allow emerging on higher vibrations.
In our busy world, we
usually stop to take a second to breathe but it helps our spirit phenomenally!
If you feel restless or fearful speak your fears and
anxieties out loud. The more you put them in the light, the quicker they begin
I have been reminded, once again, after last night's
performances that there is some real talent in people I thought I knew well,
but didn't really.
"Never assume you know anyone well." Wow! That is
so true. We all have so many more talents than are revealed in a day.
one of your hidden talents today and surprise the people who think they know
you. It’s wonderful for everyone.
The best you can do for the miserable of this world is don't
be one of them.
How can you be happy today?
I'm going to ride my bike which
I love, after that will have coffee with the gang.
What if I tell you there are priceless things you can't afford
Yes, even a homeless could have.
The next opportunity you get to leave home, I request you to
do yourself a favour that you undoubtedly deserve.
I want you to focus DEEPLY on something you usually take for
It could be trees, flowers, the eyes of a cat you pass by,
or simply the angel of breeze abundantly surrounding you.
As you concentrate more and more deep, you will begin to
tantalize the music embedded within unexpected sources beating in unison to
*At this point I literally stood up and walked outside my
I intend on sharing with you what I absorb during this mini
In order to prevent my visual ideas over-ride my other
perceptions, I switched off the garden lights and stood in complete darkness it
was 11 p.m last night, only illuminated by moonlight.
Ahhh! How breathtaking! The handsome moon poured its silky
beams onto the majestic coconut palms while the smooth blades of grass
frolicked in delight against my feet.
I closed my eyes and felt the breeze tingle my face, only to
be distracted by hyperactive mosquitoes singing against my ears and restless
lizards creaking at a distance in phase with the leaves of all the trees in
As I opened my eyes I spot stress-free fireflies flying with
overflowing liberty, with joy peace many of us could only wish for.
The stars dazzled with pride as patriotic citizens of the
As you see,
music of insects and
all these priceless sources of tranquillity
are affordable even to the starving and homeless.
As you choose to sip from these fountains of bliss, you will
gradually quench the insatiable thirst for peace of mind until materialism with
all its pressure would have no space on your list of requirements for true
If everyone takes care of him/herself only then we can evolve
into independent humans, so look deeper and deeper... to find the apotheosis in
There is nothing wrong if your world revolves around yourself.
Why, isn't that our right considering each of us represent our personal journey
It then becomes a matter of insisting on the best QUALITY of every aspect
From nutrition to clothing to our right to relaxation too.
Living life on our own terms and conditions is a bit tough
but it represents exactly what we are on other side if we don’t then we can’t
recognize our self.
It's all about following our passion. Mother Theresa was
passionate towards what she did. That was her chosen universe.
everyone is free to choose their calling.
Hopefully it won’t involve hurting
Aid workers and volunteers too had to abandon pleasing some section of
society who had other expectations of them in order to pursue their passion of
BEING aid workers.
You get my point?
So, when I say nothing wrong if YOUR Universe REVOLVES around YOU, I meant YOUR passion. Allowing the Universe to
ALIGN as YOU choose.
“Don’t ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come
alive, and go do it. Because what the world needs are people who have come
alive." ~ Howard Thurman
Do what works for you and don't let others
dictate your life.
This doesn't mean to neglect friendships or relationships as
they are proponents of a healthy, rewarding life, but it does mean you should
look out for yourself, be self sufficient and true to yourself.
If you're unhappy that unhappiness will spread to other
areas of life, and will affect other people.
Do what makes YOU HAPPY, your
happiness will spread.
Yes, we can use our energy to TRY to please everyone and
make ourselves miserable or we can remain authentic to our selves.
contribute either way. Our contribution is grander when we do things out of
love and because we care, not because we feel we have to.
When our world revolves around ourselves...... actually we
are the champions and advocates of freedom.
"If you should find you miss the sweet and tender love we used to share. Just go back to the places where we used to go, and I'll be there Well, how can I forget you, girl? When there is always something there to remind me. always something there to remind me. I was born to love her, and I'll never be free You'll always be a part of me. 'cause there is always something there to remind me. always something there to remind me. always something there to remind me."
Music and sports are old industries based upon
Making something entertaining means it has to catch your senses,
And do you think they ever think and follow what God says?
Few of them!
But the majority is making Music to catch your most inner senses,
without you even know you are being manipulated in your unconscious mind with
the music you are listening to!
You learn to appreciate the stuff they are
talking about in the songs and even repeat it in your daily life; this is good
for the entertainers!
When an old man died in the geriatric ward of a nursing home in an Australian country town, it was believed that he had nothing left of any value. Later, when the nurses were going through his meagre possessions, They found this poem. Its quality and content so impressed the staff that copies were made and distributed to every nurse in the hospital.
One nurse took her copy to Melbourne. The old man's sole bequest to posterity has since appeared in the Christmas editions of magazines around the country and appearing in mags for Mental Health. A slide presentation has also been made based on his simple, but eloquent, poem.
And this old man, with nothing left to give to the world, is now the author of this 'anonymous' poem winging across the Internet.
Cranky Old Man
What do you see nurses? . . .. . .What do you see? What are you thinking .. . when you're looking at me? A cranky old man, . . . . . .not very wise, Uncertain of habit .. . . . . . . .. with faraway eyes? Who dribbles his food .. . ... . . and makes no reply. When you say in a loud voice . .'I do wish you'd try!' Who seems not to notice . . .the things that you do. And forever is losing . . . . . .. . . A sock or shoe? Who, resisting or not . . . ... lets you do as you will, With bathing and feeding . . . .The long day to fill? Is that what you're thinking?. .Is that what you see? Then open your eyes, nurse .you're not looking at me. I'll tell you who I am . . . . .. As I sit here so still, As I do at your bidding, .. . . . as I eat at your will. I'm a small child of Ten . .with a father and mother, Brothers and sisters .. . . .. . who love one another A young boy of Sixteen . . . .. with wings on his feet Dreaming that soon now . . .. . . a lover he'll meet. A groom soon at Twenty . . . ..my heart gives a leap. Remembering, the vows .. .. .that I promised to keep. At Twenty-Five, now . . . . .I have young of my own. Who need me to guide . . . And a secure happy home. A man of Thirty . .. . . . . My young now grown fast, Bound to each other . . .. With ties that should last. At Forty, my young sons .. .have grown and are gone, But my woman is beside me . . to see I don't mourn. At Fifty, once more, .. ...Babies play 'round my knee, Again, we know children . . . . My loved one and me. Dark days are upon me . . . . My wife is now dead. I look at the future ... . . . . I shudder with dread. For my young are all rearing .. . . young of their own. And I think of the years . . . And the love that I've known. I'm now an old man . . . . . . .. and nature is cruel. It's jest to make old age . . . . . . . look like a fool. The body, it crumbles .. .. . grace and vigour, depart. There is now a stone . . . where I once had a heart. But inside this old carcass . A young man still dwells, And now and again . . . . . my battered heart swells I remember the joys . . . . .. . I remember the pain. And I'm loving and living . . . . . . . life over again. I think of the years, all too few . . .. gone too fast. And accept the stark fact . . . that nothing can last. So open your eyes, people .. . . . .. . . open and see. Not a cranky old man . Look closer . . . . see .. .. . .. .... . ME!!
Remember this poem when you next meet an older person who you might brush aside without looking at the young soul within. We will all, one day, be there, too!
PLEASE SHARE THIS POEM (originally by Phyllis McCormack; adapted by Dave Griffith)
The best and most beautiful things of this world can't be seen or touched. They must be felt by the heart!
Come out of the circle of time, and into the circle of love with
the, THE CIRCLE OF HANDS to remain in the circle of love today and always.
Love really transcends time as long as I’m concerned; we’ve
got love TRIANGLE these days instead of a circle of love!
The circle of illusion..... Up is down and sideways is straight
ahead. Time is an illusion anyway!
Love defeats time that’s the secret ;) its more powerful
than time. Time if left unguided is what kills love and life and freedom.
“Ocean absorbing a drop is no wonder,
But drop absorbing ocean is a wonder,” – Kabir
Meditation is silent musical alignment with the creator,
while prayers are verbal alignment with the Law of Attraction.
The path to ultimate truth is a process in which a person
undergoes constant transformation.
Those who journey in company with others,
which are most, also undergo transformation as a group whose members are
continually growing spiritually.
Hence, the pursuit of truth through the practice of
perennial wisdom is an ever dynamic unfolding; in which appreciation of this
wisdom is constantly deepening as one's ability to experience it increases.
Get out of the circle of time and enters the circle of
A gentle reminder of an enforced, but concise ban policy.
WHY WE WILL BAN YOU:
- COMMENTS OFFENSIVE TO THOSE WHO ARE LGBT
- USING PERSONAL INSULTS
- JUSTIFYING THE EXISTENCE OF FASCIST ORGANISATIONS
Because happy women will lead to happier men.
We don't want
to be gender divided and we do want to be humanist in our approach to all the
world's problems but it is a fact that sexism is an issue and the 'feminist'
movement (which contains men too) has more vital work to do and we will do it.
Happier men will also lead to happier women.
Malcolm X said something very similar - to educate a man is
to educate an individual but to educate a woman is to educate and liberate a
YES - it DOES start from within. It starts with awareness of
the current situation, which is to say women are NOT equal and feminism has not
achieved equality for many women.
But it can.
People often state on threads that feminism is divisive but
it IS NOT. It is about women organising themselves and supporting each other.
Many men are feminists too and many men and women work together on feminist
Some feminist groups do not want men with them and this is usually
because their work involves working alongside women who have experienced abuse
most commonly from a male partner.
Feminism is about liberating the woman first
and indirectly but most definitely the community at large.
We're all equal, and we're all connected. A balanced society
is better for everyone.
The point is that you have to liberate those who are
currently being disadvantaged by society, and everyone will benefit because of
When a woman is liberated for example, with education, she
will have the opportunity to educate and socialize males such as her own
children in a less gender restricted world.
Both men and women can adopt a more
androgynous way of living, hence a more liberated life. Androgyny means that a
person does not limit her/his life due to gender constrains.
As long as your intentions are peaceful and loving.
There is really nothing to worry!
As for those using God and FEAR to control others tell those
God loves you too and wants you to have FUN, for life is too short to worry
about others judgements.
We are human with brains and we know what’s right and what’s
wrong with our own limits. And if we work within our limits, and add to that
our conscience, humbleness, and there’s love in our hearts we shall be fine and
shall have a righteous life.
When our ACTIONS and STEPS are guided by LOVE, then we will
always choose the right path ... Many people are fearful of happiness.
persons, to be content in life means they must change a number of their habits.
We do not accept them, because to do so causes us to feel that we are in God's
debt and because of that fear of shrinking, we fail to grow.
You are innocent.
You are blameless
You are without foible
or fault of any kind.
I know you do not believe this about yourself, but do you
believe this of the three-year-old beautiful child?
And what makes you think
that you are anything less in the eyes of God?
Did you know that that the highest form of ignorance is to
reject something you know nothing about?
The responsibility of Freedom includes allowing others to be
free to make their own choices even when we disagree with seemingly valid
Disagreeing without judgement is to act responsibly with
freedom, even if it means sometime being assertive, and with seemingly valid
I believe the greatest favour one human can do to another is
respect his or her idea of freedom.
Let there be peace and let that peace begin within. That I may
set forth on a journey to find harmony.
The next time you are with someone, try to gauge what they
Don’t just listen to their words, look deep inside to see if
you can get a handle on what they are feeling.
Read between the lines. Look past the words; listen with a
clear mind and an open heart.
It really is an art form that has been lost often in everyday
If we impose preconceived thoughts of the other it may not
be so effective.
Practice active listening, it can work miracles.
Reach beyond the five senses and feel grasp the person's vibration
This is so important...the listener hears so much more by
engaging completely in the words, expressions, tone and demeanour of the person
So much more understanding and depth enters into the
conversation when this practice is followed.
One thing that gives me a deep sense of gratitude in my own
life is the feeling of being heard and truly listened to.
Do this and it will becomes a habit, non verbals are the
dominant in communication.
Let's continue to hold each other.
I was actually ridiculed by a college professor for this.
She made fun of me for looking at and nodding my head when I identified with a
speaker in our class.
She penalized the speaker for looking at me the whole
Active listening for me is allowing someone a spiritual space in which to
communicate, whether I'm one on one with some and this does require keeping
your own egoistic dialogue at bay for a while, but that awareness is what we
must be out to achieve.
"Nothing in the world can take the place of
persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with
talent. Genius will not; the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence
and determination alone are omnipotent. The slogan ‘press on’ has solved and
always will solve the problems of the human race." –Calvin Coolidge
He sure showed that with his persistence and determination
He does have a point for sure. Put one foot in front of the
other comes to mind.
There is some truth in President's Calvin words, especially
when he says:
"Nothing is more
common than unsuccessful men with talent”;
I think he is absolutely wrong when he says:
"Genius will not, Talent will not"
And I really do not agree with the words " ‘press on’
has solved and always will solve the problems of the human race.”
I rather believe that it is the combination of talent and
persistence which brings success. And this combination is a personal mixture
which varies from person to person.
There is no pattern. I rather think that we have to include
values like intuition and ability to improvise to gain a strong personality ...
besides persistence and determination.
Practice, makes perfect - the only difference between a
winner, and, a loser, is, the winner got up one more time - Babe Ruth held two
world records - the most home runs, and, the most strike outs.
But, I believe in this quote he implied talent, genius and
other hibernating blessings are futile until persistently manifested into
action with determination.
Everyone has talent, at least one. But what makes
the divine blueprint within us tarnish and fade over time is the fact we don't
acknowledge the possibility of transforming them into tangible forms via our
potential ability to contribute to Humanity.
As for 'press on', consider this
on an individual scale. How many times have talented geniuses given up to when
they almost reached the pinnacle. Only
We have no idea what we give up when we "give up".
Passion and persistence will help you reach the goal. Of the two passions might
be easier to come by.
Passion burns hot and quick but persistence is the hand
that nurtures and revives the flame of passion when it flickers or grows dim especially
when it is doused by your own limitations or those imposed by others or by the
simple and inevitable passage of time!
Let’s send out our intentions and become the witnesses of
the happening of the wonders of life.
Let’s feel the faith that every intention
is like a stone we throw into an endless sea of stillness and every single one
of this stones creates waves that are expanding through the whole infinite sea
of divine consciousness.
Through the great intelligence of life itself this
waves becomes the manifestation of our desires in the most direct and harmonic
way that is possible and that creates good for all what is.
I tried to find Him on the Christian cross, but He was not there;
I went to the temple of the Hindus and to the old pagodas,
but I could not find a trace of Him anywhere…
I searced on the mountains and in the valleys
but neither in the heights nor in the depthswas I able to find Him. I went to the Ka’bah in Mecca, but He was not there either… I questioned the scholars and philosophers but He was beyond their understanding… Then I looked into my heart and it was there where He dwelled that I saw Him, He was nowhere else to be found.
It’s important to know that any emotional damage we face in
life is something that can be fixed and mended.
It's a choice to want to heal those hurts that have made us
broken at one point in time.
As we restore ourselves...we emerge with a stronger and more
beautiful spirit, ready to take on life once again.
Take a few moments and slow it down. Most things in life do
not need a swift automatic response.
Think, "What is it that I am trying to accomplish
Before you assume, learn the FACTS!
Before you judge, understand WHY?
Before you hurt someone, FEEL,
Before you speak THINK!
The seemingly on-going "foibles" of the Human
Experience...ALL of the "Above"..!!
How simple life would be!
Our whole life is a prayer. Those who understand this, take responsibility for their thoughts, words, and deeds, because they know the power and responsibility we all have in creating reality. Everything we do affects everything else.
To the people who love you, you are beautiful already. This is not because they’re blind to your shortcomings but because they so clearly see your soul. Your shortcomings then dim by comparison. The people who care about you are willing to let you be imperfect and beautiful, too.
This is a predatory world we live in. It's not good or bad,
it just is.
The Question is- do individuals grow fonder of each other as
they are physically separated?
Yes it makes a difference but based on perspective, the
bond can be as strong but a very different feeling maybe even connects to
separate chakras...fills different voids in our life.
Maybe that’s why monks
teach total observance only...no connection.
It depends on what the platonic friendships are built upon.
If it's friendships for just hanging out and having fun time together then
eventually they/ we find new friends as distance separates them.
If its friendships build on intellectual, spiritual
interests then these can deepen via distance as each friend experience new
challenges and lessons with the new geography and they/ we will share these
across the miles.
Particularly with today's technology, it's instantaneous!
Consider friendships of this nature build on face book!
Many of whom we never
met in real life before, yet these bonds are often inexplicably stronger than
most friendships we have in real life based on the rare power of synergism via
similar interests and overlap of experiences.
If you want to know where your heart is, look to where your
mind goes when it wanders...
How do you guys feel when you see individuals of the same
gender as yourself super-groomed?
Women (We Men) react in different ways on noticing other
attractive/groomed Women. Some admittedly feel jealous while others get
I feel excitedly MOTIVATED and SO very glad to see groomed
women and men-
are it in physique,
intellect and/ or
as this is
proof of their Awareness and interest to take care of one/ more dimensions of
This is indeed progress for our Universal Evolution.
It's always good to see people that take pride in their
There is a LIMIT Extraordinary External Beauty can give one
luck, eventually it will become clears that although the outside of the cup is
shining and beautiful, that the inside is filled with filth and decay.....
Kind of like you can talk to me for 15 minutes but after that you better know something because it don't take long to figure a person out after that..
Give me a tired and worn cup that is shiny, sparkly clean
and beautiful within!
I love you.... more than the morning air more than your'e aware
I love you... more than I can say more than words relay I love you... for who you are you my shining star I love you... my true beautiful dear now come to me near I love you... my fingers through your hair admiring you my beauty fair I love you... more each passing day let's walk through loves doorway I love you... for now from afar seeing you on my hearts radar I love you... come before me and appear let's walk through life's frontier
Take your time to believe that which you are conventionally
expected to believe.
We are not expected to make any mistakes, but are there
any absolute mistakes in Life's lessons?
I can tell you with absolute certainty, that from my
perspective, there are no such things as mistakes!!!
Only experiences from which we can learn and appreciate!
Sometimes, we have to 'step back' from the experience to fully appreciate it,
learn from it; but when we do, we grow so much!
I believe there are NO mistakes or failures in Life provided
we perceive them as LESSONS.
Life has infinite
possibilities for each of us. Neither our biology, geography nor religion
really has complete influence on our pathways.
You may have seen this fact in the same household how
siblings are VERY distinct from one another.
We had to define 2 words "perception" and
Going back to the concept of paradigm shifting, and the fact
that the image formed in our minds about a certain issue is nothing more than a
formation from our past experiences and what we grew up believing from the our
community and that image will, accordingly, differ between people, as they have
different experiences and may be, cultural or religious background.
So, the perception of a "mistake" will differ
widely between people.
I believe that some mistakes, if that what they call it are
really little miracles that are presented to us & we don't really see the
essences of them.
I believe that everything is a lesson for us to learn &
look at the so call mistake and see what we can take from it to improve or
expand our awareness of our human aspects.
People can affect you ONLY as much as you let them affect
I’m just rekindling a thought that was lingering my mind.
Time and again I have had unavoidable individuals whose role
seemed to be only to discourage me. It’s amazing beyond a certain point in Life
you figure out what you REALLY want to do and feel so relieved when you
discover your passion, only to discover it’s just the beginning for all the
ridicule and resistance human ability could possibly create.
I have reached that level of maturity to realize "people can
only affect you as much as you LET them affect you."
After wards, the only thing I do is smile when someone tries
very hard to harm my self-esteem; it’s been the most liberating and peaceful
feeling on Earth so far.
Nothing realistically attainable is impossible to achieve.
Impossible it is saying "I'm-Possible".
We can't control other's thoughts and actions regardless how
much we love/ care for them. Remember, every soul is given their very own body.
We get authority over our own Life. The BEST we can do is making it phenomenal.
The Best we can also do is expecting the LEAST from others.
That way you
wouldn't be disappointed. You'd rather be happier when someone pleases you
beyond your expectations than vice versa.
Motivation is the key force driving you to do something, yet
you should set your expectations right! Don’t have high expectations in people.
They are changing with time and circumstance.
Expectations are vital. But the Q is on whom?
The more we
drive ourselves further to become more refined every day; we can reap more
See, I believe it’s futile to simply expect MORE from
others. Instead I see it pragmatically healthier to challenge ourselves to
achieving greater heights.
SO I'd conclude on exceptions saying elevate your
exceptions on thyself because you are more capable than you assumed as you have
far more potential in anything you would focus on achieving!
Yes, we should set very low expectations. I couldn't agree
more on people changing for circumstances in this opportunistic world. It’s
truly a challenge to get through anything without having that element of mistrust
unless you know someone inside out.
Agreed again those who hurt you make you stronger and wiser-
Been there myself too.
It’s truly unbearable at times when you are scared by
those very people you "expect" to be there for you no-matter-what and
treat you right apart from nice.
But that's reality for us. The sooner we
realize we can only count on ourselves and God 100% the lesser chances of
getting disappointed in the future.
Our minds are truly the filter with the freedom to selective
absorb that which it desires. If only everyone could realize and utilize this
liberty our world would be a different place won't it?!
Sometimes one needs to dive deeper despite portraying a
complex image in order to explain a fine point.
If the perceiving end is still
interested further it could be explained via a different angle.