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Saturday, February 28, 2015

A strong woman doesn't NEED you, she WANTS you. And, if you treat her wrong, she will be content without you.

There are some women who are just looking for someone to take care of them. They need you, for one reason or another, or at least they think that they need you. 
Women like this will put up with being treated in ways that are less than they deserve because their self-confidence has been damaged somewhere along the line.
A strong woman, on the other hand, doesn't need you, she wants you. And, if you treat her wrong, she will be content without you. 
She will do just fine on her own. She has developed a sense of self-confidence and self-esteem, and is happy with who she is. She knows that she doesn't really NEED anyone, but she prefers to have someone in her life.
The man who is strong and has a healthy sense of self-worth, wants a strong woman by his side. But, what if you are in love with a woman that is not strong?
Well, there is certainly nothing wrong with that. If you are in this position, it should be one of your goals, as her partner, to rebuild her self-esteem, self-confidence, and self-worth. Help her to become a strong woman who knows how precious she is. 
And, if you are with a strong woman, you have a responsibility to help her stay strong and maintain her self-esteem.
A person's self-esteem and self-confidence can fluctuate depending on various things. 
Your job, as a gentleman, is to support the woman in your life and keep her self-esteem and self-worth at a high level, whether she is a strong woman or a woman who needs you to help her rebuild her self-image. 

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There is no limit....

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there; you must go beyond them."

If you allow the plateaus in life to stop you, you will never reach the heights of your own abilities.
Plateaus are a test, a test to see if you have the discipline and determination to break through and continue to greater things, or to see if you will simply give up.
Sure, they can be very frustrating, but that is part of the test. Some people continue to work, to make adjustments, and to break through plateaus, while others give up.
Thus plateaus are one of the things that separate the good from the great.
If you want to achieve excellence in your life, you will have to learn to go beyond the plateaus in your life.
You have to accept no limits - go over, under, through, or around any roadblocks in your way. 
Don't allow anything to keep you from achieving your objectives!

To a great mind, nothing is little. Sherlock Holmes