If you're married, be committed.
Don't go fishing when you
have someone who trusts and loves you.
This goes to both, men and women.
Either
be in it honestly or talk about it before it falls apart.
There is NO justification for fishing/ cheating while one is
married. No, not even if their partners will fill in the blanks of whatever
negative traits. It's about honesty.
Beyond all, to self.
I feel that even if they are freaky on the wink loll they
should be honest with each other about those sides of themselves and what they
are willing to explore with one another.
No sneaking around and all of the
secret foolishness
The single people also have a responsibility in NOT to lead
on any married friends/ co-workers/ bosses/ etc that are showing any signs of
crossing the line.
I’m an open individual but I do believe in commitment.
If
one is made then I believe it should be kept!
It takes 2 to tango. So there won't be cheating unless
someone agreed to it. It's just a shame how some are addicted to the habit.
I
don't waste time even listening to excuses.
Married friends got to know their
limits.
If they cross it, they lose a friend, plain and simple policy.
Even to those who are "unreligious" does not
equate to being immoral, but need to respect everything and everyone.
I am also a believer in the fact that a married/committed
individual can also be involved in an "emotional affair" with
someone, that can possibly lead to further destruction of the present
relationship.
Maybe, that is the time to step back and review your own personal
morals and work on some "self" improvements to be able to make an
attempt to rescue the committed relationship or at least be honest with that
person and yourself!
If one loves another they don't cheat, it's that simple. So
many do not realize how blessed they are to have someone in their life who
loves them.
I know of many just remain in their marriage for the sake of
their children if they have them, and then the children are affected too, just
such a toxic situation that many do not escape.
Be fair to everyone involved. Especially to your soul, but
we have no right to judge our neighbour on anything. The only right we have is
to keep our soul, thoughts and actions in the right.
There are all types of individuals in all types of
societies. We simply appear diverse from the outside...
The rich/ poor, educated/ laymen, etc dualities are all
relative.
ps/smoh
26/8/2012
Sunday morning
26/8/2012
Sunday morning
