I believe in unconditional love, but I don't believe in unconditional relationships. There must always be a condition of kindness and reciprocity of love, loyalty, and RESPECT.
I believe in boundaries for love.
Who told us to love unconditionally?
And what does that mean, really?
To give it all away?
No, I believe in
boundaries.
They protect real love.
We can unconditionally love everyone but that doesn't buy
everyone a free ticket through our boundaries.
There are a number of people I unconditionally love from a
very safe distance. Once you open yourself for love you just can't help but
love every living being.
But not all can be allowed to close at any time.
For your information.....I love me, I won't let you show to
the world that it is okay to violate me.
From soul to whole...
Think kindness covers it all; unconditional doesn't mean one
takes neither the shit treatment nor the sneaky cheater.
It's just I love you
as you are but don't send crap my way.
That's what I feel.
Kindness is a given for me, I believe in unconditional too,
it is our free choice what we wish to be around, of course, always with the
ability to move on, accepting others as they wish to be...
I believe that love – feeling and relationships, working
partnership are different things and should probably have separate rules.
Love,
because it is a feeling, can be unconditional. Let's say, no matter what our
partner does, our feelings toward him/her do not change ha-ha, this is rare.
Relationships, however, are working partnerships. As such, they require
conditions, boundaries, and limits to work smoothly.
The day when we know love and don't need to define it, just
let it lives in us....
ps/smoh
