So many people think if its love, then everything should
flow smoothly, no hiccups. But even the best of relationships require putting
in effort making love a daily conscious habit. You need to put in the effort of
what is call “repair.”
Both partners have to keep putting something into the
relationship – for it to stay thriving.
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If you want to “live happily ever after in love” you must
prioritize finding a man who:
1. Values growing as a person
2. Truly understands a relationship serves the double function
of “den of pleasure” and “laboratory for growth”
After all, if your partner do not value growth, he won’t be
ready to deal with non-fun, inevitable conflicts in a high integrity way.
As a result, when those aforementioned disagreements,
disappointments, stresses, crises, temptations, sadness’s, monetary-challenges,
illnesses, vulnerabilities and misunderstandings arise, your relationship will
suffer. Or worse, your partner will run for the hills—end of story, end of
relationship!
