don't ever explain something someone is not ready to hear...
ultimately, there is no-one else here...
simply RESPOND to what happens -
if there is a REACTION -
that where the work is, as that evidence conditioned tendencies at play...
neither are totally true nor totally false,
the truth is too clever for that.
It's this fundamental ambiguity we try to avoid about if this is true or
that that I find most interesting.