Courage is beautiful. The heart of hearts is fully mature. Decision is growth..., choice is stagnation.
The negative influence is often passive. It's always a reflection of inner condition; hence forgiveness.
It’s also due to lack of understanding. We can only understand deeply what we personally experience. So those who have yet experienced, are afraid or judgmental.
The delicacy with which anything is expressed considering sensitivity goes a long way when advising our loved ones. Not only to say the right thing at the right time to the right recipient, but also NOT to say the wrong thing at the wrong time to those not yet ready to digest it.
As I say often, everything depends on one's individual level of Spiritual and Personal evolution. The more evolved Being is able to forgive whilst letting go of the attachment, which is the key to Liberation. Forgiveness beginning with self through to other Beings.
Wishing you abundant Tranquillity, Love and Peace everyday exponentially.