Don't Be Sad When I Die....

The life we experience as human beings is very different from the life experienced by other creatures with which we share our planet.

Most of us agonize over the meaning of our lives, we have hopes and dreams to which we aspire and work towards.

We are human and we will always be changing, our needs are always changing, when one need is filled the next need now has room to make its voice heard.

When we stop changing we can stop living, yes life is hard sometime and changes and many people lose their way in their path to find peace.

Live each day to the fullest, wondering why, life at times, can seem great. Living every day, like it was our very last, for our days could be very long or go by very fast.

Trust and have faith in God and especially in you, for you will carry yourself in your flight.
The miracle of life is waiting for you to see.

Look beyond yourself and of the world. Not all communication is verbal and sometimes we know and feel although they haven't said a thing.

Tomorrow isn't promised to young or old alike, today may be the last day I'm able to hold you tight. Don't wait for tomorrow, do it all today, if tomorrow never comes, you'll never regret a day.

What is spirituality?

Some would some say it is simply matters of the spirit, but the complication comes in when you try to define spirit.

Spirituality is a very hard word to define, but let’s just say you know it when you feel it.

When that something deep inside you feels moved, it is probably of a spiritual nature.

When tomorrow starts without me,

and I’m not there to comfort you,
please know that I still love you,
cause I know you love me too.

When tomorrow starts without me,
and you feel lost and blue,
I hope these words I’ve written
will help to see you through.

Someday your pain will ease,
sadness replaced by fond memories
Come tomorrow you will hear
I love you whispered on the breeze.

When tomorrow starts without me
cause God has called me home
I turn, blowing a kiss for thee
Sad that you may feel alone.

I will miss you tomorrow
as I take one last glimpse
a tear falls from my cheek
I’ll be going home.

And tomorrow will start without me

ps/smoh to AOH

"Within every adversity are equal or greater benefits. Within every problem is an opportunity."

I heard those words when I hit my financial low point, and they helped change my life. When you encounter adversities, ask yourself what benefits, what opportunities, are there in the problems. When you ask that question, you start getting answers.This is nothing new: 
In the Bhagavad Gita, written over 5,000 years ago, it says 

"Even in the knocks of life we can find great gifts." !!!

All of us have the tools we need to succeed in life. It's just a matter of focusing our creative minds in the right direction.

Keep working with and playing with affirmations until you find the wording that's best for you.

I just say affirmations occasionally throughout the day. I'm completely undisciplined. 
Some days, I don't do anything at all.
 I like saying, 
"I am now creating ..." or 
"I am now becoming..." rather than 
"I am a ..." 
The main thing is to find some words your subconscious can agree with and start to act upon. 

"I am now a millionaire" is something your subconscious might have difficulty believing if you're struggling to pay the rent — but back when I was a poverty case, I started affirming 
"I am now creating total financial success, in an easy and relaxed manner, a healthy and positive way." 
That worked for me!

Before or after each of your affirmations, add the words "in an easy & relaxed manner, in a healthy & positive way."

In an easy and relaxed manner, in a healthy and positive way, I am guided by spirit, every moment, doing God’s will.

I challenge you to make a list of affirmations, repeat them often for a few weeks, and see what happens!

I pray every morning to be guided by Spirit throughout the day, and I affirm every day that I am in touch with Spirit, every moment.

"Luck is preparedness meeting opportunity."

When you want to be more at ease in the moment, just take a deep breath, and as you exhale, let all thought go.

The entire process can be summed up in four powerful words: Dream, Imagine, Believe, Create.

As soon as your dream becomes stronger than your doubts and fears, your dreams begin to manifest.

We discover when we learn to watch our thoughts that we can choose our thoughts.

The universe gives us exactly what we ask for, no more, no less. So ask away!

What does success mean for you? Of course, it's up to you to define it — and the more clearly you define it for yourself, the sooner you'll create it.

ps/smoh

"If you think there is good in everybody then you obviously haven't met everybody..."

People are always a little disconcerted when you don't recognize them, they are so important to themselves; it is a shock to discover of what small importance they are to others.

Another gem of wise wisdom from the master of analysis of the human condition....ME *__^

In the first place it's not true that people improve as you know them better: they don't.

That's why one should only have acquaintances and never make friends. Once you have a few good friends, keep them, that is all you need really....the rest is acquaintance.

An acquaintance shows you only the best of them, they’re considerate and polite, and they conceal their defects behind a mask of social convention.

 

But we grow so intimate with them that they throws the mask aside, get to know them so well that we doesn't trouble any longer to pretend.

Then you'll discover a being of such meanness, of such trivial nature, of such weakness, of such corruption, that you'd be aghast if you didn't realize that that was their nature and it was just as stupid to condemn them as to condemn the wolf because the ravens or the cobra because they strikes.

But such is the nature of all human beings. There is no scale for measuring trivial nature.

So how can one condemn another as being trivial when one's self is on some level, weak corrupt and trivial?

Why the arrogance?

I see just one part of the solution - which is pointing out that all humans are flawed.

They fail to answer the true question:

What is the purpose of a Friend?

Having acquaintances only will mean to wear the mask and to be quite shallow in exchange of emotions.

It will not spare from the "truth" about the nature of people around you, but will take off the possibility to be yourself as well with all what makes us human being.

I am a real old cynic sometimes though I must confess to being a besotted admirer.

Some people really do improve on acquaintance & amp; reveal hither to hidden qualities.

Not everyone can charm you delude at a first meeting.

ps/smoh

There was never an option..... When ‘a friend’ starts to put you down, it is time to walk away.

I learned so much about myself, in term of my boundaries, I became very aware of the moral convictions that are important to me

I learned not to judge people

I learned that things are not black and white

And the way that I defined ‘good’ in the past needed renegotiating.

Being myself is the only thing that I know how to be,  it comes in one package, you cannot choose  and discarded the things that you don’t like....I am who I am, accept it or walk.

It is not always easy because there’s a lot of unnatural scenario that you’ll find yourself in, you’ll be challenge yourself to find a gracious way out of certain situation you have not developed yourself yet.

I’m learning as I go, I’m learning the process of boundaries. 

I know who I am to my core, 

I know what is important to me, 

I know what’s make me happy, and there are certain things about my constitution that are none negotiable.

Because I am comfortable in my own skin, it stays there.  

If I put my toe in a water that feels disingenuous to me that feels that a compromises to in any way I’ll get a very bad reaction from it, I know I have to retreat from it.

I’m learning to process it better, I have to get better to not being caring of things that is beyond my control, so that is my big weakness.

You have to be sure of why you are doing it; from there you know what your boundaries are. And you are not in any danger of becoming somebody that you don’t like.

You need to be aware of your place in a bigger picture because it is not about you and your journey, it get co modified from the outside and you have to be aware of how and what your plan is to keep your pure on the inside.

When you hop on the bus and you arrived, nobody cares.

People will take advantage of you and what you can offer them, you have to find out what matters to you, which is your personal journey.

You need to ask ‘Why” are you doing it???

You have to know who you are, certain things are not negotiable....you got to maintain your dignity because at the end of the day that’s all you got.

Once you Get there and stay there, maintain it, by staying  there you can go so much further rather than doing it all over again to get there again.

ps/smoh

Evolve your beliefs....

Many of us feel uncomfortable revealing to others—and even to ourselves—what lies beneath the surface of our day-to-day consciousness. 

We get out of bed in the morning, and begin again where we left off yesterday, attacking life as if we were waging a campaign of control and survival. 

All the while, deep within us, flows an endless river of pure energy. 

It sings a low and rich song that hints of joy and liberation and peace. 

Up on top, as we make our way through life, we may sense the presence of the river. 

We may feel a subtle longing to connect with it. But we are usually moving too fast, or we are distracted, or we fear disturbing the status quo of our surface thoughts and feelings. 

It can be unsettling to dip below the familiar and descend into the more mysterious realms of the soul.

If we don’t listen to the voice of the soul, it sings a stranger tune. If we don’t go looking for what lies beneath the surface of our lives, the soul comes looking for us.

ps/smoh



My soul journey has been one of wonder, full of sunny days, and dark storms. For I follow my heart, and when I surrender and say Lord...it is in your control..he comforts me. Walking the truth is not an easy road. But I love what I see in the mirror. I am still learning to love more, of self and others. It is that simple in words. yet the journey is complex...again one filled with spiritual wonder. For me....it is like trying to peel an onion. 

WHATEVER!

I didgeridoo recognized it ^__^

To love and be loved, rather than criticize or judge.

Communication, Communication, Communication! I'm trying to improve of course. Unfortunately, as a Virgo, my natural tendency is to call a spade a bloody shovel! 

This tends to offend some people naturally.

I rarely get into trouble because of something I did, but because of something I said.

Most people walk before they could talk but in my case I think I could talk before walking. 

This I have to ask my Mum.

You just cannot beat a person who is just telling you the truth. Period!

I don’t care how you feel about it; how it sound or other people view it...I tell it as it is and to my friends who knows me they understand me.

The problem with people, lots of them that they think they are better than you, they think they know you better than you, more knowledgeable than you, and think that they are always right.

Whatever it is do not judge, that's a firm rule.

Friendship is an art and very few people are born with natural gift for it.

It is a learned skill, as any art....

My Care Will Be

In The Heart,

And

Not In Words...

My Anger Will Be

In Words,

And

Never In the Heart!!

Love is a promise; love is a souvenir, once given never forgotten, never let it disappear.

We came into this world in a wrinkled little body, and we leave in a large wrinkled body...........if we're lucky.

ps/smoh

I am who I am, I like what I like, I love who I love, I talk how I talk, get off my back and deal with it.

It's my life so I would appreciate if you just mind your own business!

Pride is concerned with WHO is right. Character is concerned with WHAT is right.

The above statements seem to be the same at first glance.

After all, they are both are concerned with being right, right?

Not exactly, there is a big difference between being concerned with WHO is right, as opposed to WHAT is right.

The first statement argues over WHO is right, with little concerned to what is actually right. 

This is all about pride. 

Don't worry about WHO is right, be concerned with WHAT is right. 

All that matters is what is right, not saving face or saving your pride.

If you have the character to focus on what is right, the WHO is right, will take care of itself. 

Be humble and let justice be your guide.

Think Before You Act!

There is one thing that even God cannot do. That is turn back time and undo what has been done. 

You are responsible for your actions, no one else. You are also responsible for the consequences that accompany your actions. 

For this reason, it is imperative that you THINK BEFORE YOU ACT.

The prisons are full of people who acted without thinking their actions through. 

Many were sorry for their actions almost immediately afterwards, but their remorse did not deter the consequences of their actions.

 Karma is not mocked.

Always think BEFORE you act. 

This includes all acts, yes, even speaking. 

You should always think before you speak as well. 

Actions, once performed, cannot be undone; words, once spoken, can never be unspoken. 

THINK!

ps/smoh