Don't take advice about Life from someone who is not enjoying life and living a lie, said I.
I've learned that people generally want us well, but if the person does not exemplify a quality I respect – I will have to look elsewhere.
Human beings are already naughty enough with trying to control each other without knowing what each other is thinking, plus having privacy of thought, means we can think to ourselves in peace without others getting excited and in our face, offering unwanted judgement and commentary when we don't want them to and generally just getting all up in our business that derived us loony because if we want to broadcast our thoughts to others we can always SPEAK.
Thank GOD we have the sanctuary of our thoughts being PRIVATE. We can choose what or what not to share.
There is a boundary, instead of any bugger being able to pry and spy whenever they want.
Yea why do some enjoy taking down a peg or two to cause someone to feel inadequate by outdoing or surpassing them???
"Watch it move. The baton of self-hatred. Passed from one person to the next, in the form of insults, arbitrary judgments, glares, and stares. One generation after another, riddled with internalized shame, channeling it towards their fellow humans in the hope that it will get rid of it. But it doesn’t get rid of it- it just embeds it further. The more we shame others, the more we internalize our own shame. The more we hate others, the more we hate ourselves. The more we judge others, the more we judge ourselves. We are one of the first generations with the chance to shift this pattern, to stop this self-perpetuating cycle of shame. I will begin...Fellow humans, treasure yourselves, honour your divinity, I wish for you everything that makes you whole."
We don't need to explain our stand. We only need to show it...
It's so easy to blame things or others for what happened to us but it is our responsibility to live our lives.
Nobody has the obligation to make us happy or to handle things we want to and when we liberate ourselves from this way of thinking and take our lives in our own hands, the feeling is much better and the outcome more often than not, is what we decided for.
We can't create or change all exterior circumstances and people, but we can always choose how to deal with them and thus create ourselves and our own life over and over. And perhaps this will reflect on exterior circumstances, and people, eventually.
Sometimes you have to look at the person coming to tell you the story than the actual story being told..... Food for thought
I realised that we as a human being are fully capable of a wide spectrum of emotions. We all are living in the truthfully grey area, it is NOT black or white if the right button is pushed we are all capable of harmful action.
Each person has their own swags. It has to please our sensibility.
We don't know very much. That's why we act like we do. I have spent a lot of time gathering information on the subject of reality. Turns out it isn't interested in explaining itself. This blank space brought to you by the great mystery.
I find myself at a crossroads. We should never assume we know what we are doing or why or who we are doing it for. We are just not that smart. So I sit wondering, pondering....what is for me and I know the answer will not come in words.
So I wait. Waiting is difficult; it entails surrender to the unknown.
Silence is a master teacher.
Keep sailing your own boat...
love light and peace
ps/smoh
