It's simple, easy, in-the-moment, and you can play it with a
friend, your lover, on a date,
or with someone you've just met – anyone.
Requirements: 2 people.
Warning: You will both likely feel more present, playful,
connected,
and perhaps even turned-on after playing this game.
Directions:
Two people stand or sit directly across from each other,
making eye contact.
One person is A and the other is B. A goes first.
A: What I notice when I'm with you is…
B: Hearing that, what I'm noticing is…
A: Hearing that, what I'm noticing is…
B: Hearing that, what I'm noticing is…
and so on, alternating back and forth.
It could be 2 minutes or 20 minutes, it's up to you.
You can share observations, thoughts, sensations, feelings,
anything.
Be open for laughter, tears, wonder, real communication –
ahh... an authentic meeting.
Be willing to take risks. The more vulnerable, edgy and
unfiltered, the more exhilarating and engaging this game becomes. This includes
sharing your nervousness, attraction and even frustration.
Keep it in-the-moment. Don't prepare what you might say –
let it unfold organically,
allow yourself to be surprised by what comes out of your
mouth.
There's a new moon tonight – make a wish and have some fun!
VE/smoh
