People can affect you ONLY as much as you let them affect
you!
I’m just rekindling a thought that was lingering my mind.
Time and again I have had unavoidable individuals whose role
seemed to be only to discourage me. It’s amazing beyond a certain point in Life
you figure out what you REALLY want to do and feel so relieved when you
discover your passion, only to discover it’s just the beginning for all the
ridicule and resistance human ability could possibly create.
I have reached that level of maturity to realize "people can
only affect you as much as you LET them affect you."
After wards, the only thing I do is smile when someone tries
very hard to harm my self-esteem; it’s been the most liberating and peaceful
feeling on Earth so far.
Nothing realistically attainable is impossible to achieve.
Impossible it is saying "I'm-Possible".
We can't control other's thoughts and actions regardless how
much we love/ care for them. Remember, every soul is given their very own body.
We get authority over our own Life. The BEST we can do is making it phenomenal.
The Best we can also do is expecting the LEAST from others.
That way you
wouldn't be disappointed. You'd rather be happier when someone pleases you
beyond your expectations than vice versa.
Motivation is the key force driving you to do something, yet
you should set your expectations right! Don’t have high expectations in people.
They are changing with time and circumstance.
Expectations are vital. But the Q is on whom?
The more we
drive ourselves further to become more refined every day; we can reap more
wholesome results.
See, I believe it’s futile to simply expect MORE from
others. Instead I see it pragmatically healthier to challenge ourselves to
achieving greater heights.
SO I'd conclude on exceptions saying elevate your
exceptions on thyself because you are more capable than you assumed as you have
far more potential in anything you would focus on achieving!
Yes, we should set very low expectations. I couldn't agree
more on people changing for circumstances in this opportunistic world. It’s
truly a challenge to get through anything without having that element of mistrust
unless you know someone inside out.
Agreed again those who hurt you make you stronger and wiser-
Been there myself too.
It’s truly unbearable at times when you are scared by
those very people you "expect" to be there for you no-matter-what and
treat you right apart from nice.
But that's reality for us. The sooner we
realize we can only count on ourselves and God 100% the lesser chances of
getting disappointed in the future.
Our minds are truly the filter with the freedom to selective
absorb that which it desires. If only everyone could realize and utilize this
liberty our world would be a different place won't it?!
Sometimes one needs to dive deeper despite portraying a
complex image in order to explain a fine point.
If the perceiving end is still
interested further it could be explained via a different angle.
ps/smoh
ps/smoh
