Always put more importance on what people do, instead of what they say.
Many people have the habit of talking the talk, but have a hard time walking the walk. Others are proficient when it comes to presenting a good image, but it is simply facade.
They say all the right things, are carefully never to offend, and essentially create a false front for everyone to see.
But if you carefully watch their actions, you will see that their words are hollow.
Never be fooled by words; always look at the whole package.
If you pay close attention, you will be able to see the true character of those around you. And, if you sit back and let them talk enough, most of the time, they will eventually let their true character slip out through their words as well.
You should make sure that you don't fit into that category.
Your words,
actions, and
thoughts should all be in harmony.
Be the person that you want others to think you are.
Be sincere.
Be who you really are, and make who you really are a person of honour and integrity.
Don't say one thing and do another.
ps/smoh