We are life itself; there
is no reason to separate life from what we are.
The best argument you can
make is no argument at all. Do not argue with life, or with anyone in life.
Life presents itself perfectly in every moment, and every person believes his
or her point of view to be valid and 'right.'
Sometimes it’s great fun
to argue, at least for a little while. Done in the right perspective, much can
be learned. That’s an interesting argument I say, but wouldn't life be boring
if we all agreed with one another and had no arguments?
Surely that is the
spice of life! Idealistic maybe but unrealistic in my opinion.
I tend to argue too much,
argument for improve, not for win a fight. I often learn a great deal from
people with another POV. I think there is a place for argument but like fine
wine it has to be cultivated and gracious.
Whatever is happening at
any given moment, it’s happening exactly as it ought to......so if someone is
arguing with you and telling you there perspective, try to remember that this
is their perspective at that time, it may not be yours, but we don’t have to
argue or agree, we just have to accept that they have a right to view their
point from whatever perspective it comes from.
If we try and remember
this, there would be no need for arguments as we wouldn't feel the need to
defend ourselves and our perspectives/point of view. Whatever is happening is
happening and I believe for a bigger reason than is presenting itself at that
moment, denying it, closing our eyes and ears to it won’t set us free, merely
it will contain us and close us down and love stands no chance of entering any
of us when we are like this.
One must argue but with
passion, credibility, and logic. One trait of a developed and highly conscious
person who is not in the grips of ego is the ability to also see when you're
not right and be quick to correct yourself.
Be who you are. Also be
proud on it, you’re not doing wrong, never.
Instead of arguing,
simply live and act according to your values...blaze a path and let others
follow once they see the beauty of your actions.
The best way to change
how things are going in this world is to be joyful and loving in the face of
hatred and "evil". Plant the seed of love and maybe it will take
root. Even if it doesn't, you can say you made a good choice.
Peace.
ps/smoh
