When you make the decision to have children, you have a responsibility to raise those children to the best of your abilities.
But many times, we think that we can tell our children to do one thing, while at the same time, we don't model that behavior ourselves.
This doesn't work!
Your sons and daughters are constantly watching your actions.
What you do speaks louder than what you say. If you want your children to grow up to be better than you, then you have to improve yourself first.
This is part of being a good parent.
When your children look at your actions, and those actions become ingrained into their psyche to the point that your son grows up to be like you, and your daughter grows up subconsciously looking for a man like you, will that be a good thing or a bad thing?
The answer to that question is up to YOU.
ps/smoh
