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"Do not wallow in your mistakes.
Do not grovel and prostrate
yourself in hopes of forgiveness.
We all make mistakes.
Apologize and move
forward.
Do not replay the event in your head.
Do not continue to beat yourself
up.
Do not profusely explain, defend yourself, and make excuses or blame.
After
you apologize, do no more explaining; never explain more than once ever.
When
you keep explaining and rehashing you just keep your mistake alive.
Learn your
lesson and adjust your behaviour and move forward.
Let people see you
overcoming your mistakes with integrity.
Most mistakes which seem huge in the
heat of the moment are quickly forgotten.
We often even further bond with
others through surviving our mistakes together.
Big mistakes are an outstanding
opportunity to showcase your ability to recover and have grace under pressure.
The bigger the mistake the bigger the opportunity, this is how you turn it all
around."