Seems to me that human "relationships" are about
manipulation in general. Seems everybody wants something from each other.
1. What do I want?
2. What am I using it for?
3. Why do I care?
Nothing has ever worked for me more than these three little
questions.
Those are great questions.
The answers can be nuts, for me it is crazy clarifying...
Because then I realize I am one of those uses for just anybody
else who would ever consider me at all...
That’s so equalizing... or really needed. I don't like being needed.
Need seems a farce because I die right now and no one
actually has a problem, just a little boo-hoo if at all.....so I would bet if
you look, you fear being useless.
I am useless and it doesn't bother me....that am the only “credential"
I have for saying that. I don't know the idea of being useless sounds relaxing.
It's easy to see if you're sensitive observer. The person being
brutally honest and direct is still only coming from their own perspective.
Social niceties are appreciated by those with sensitive feelings. I'm glad I'm
empathic because I can read between the lines, sense what's beneath the words
but still have compassion for our shared humanity and allow for people to not
know how to be clear or direct or speak nicely when they do. So many layers of conditioning
fear and need to sift thru for many of us.
Empathy is how you win....
If you are not empathic, people decide what you are...
If you are empathic, people decide what you are,
but you made them think it was their idea...
but you made them think it was their idea...
The belief in their supremacy runs deep. When we convince
ourselves of their standard, the outcome is always dysfunction…… these self
loathing zombies dare to be cloaked in glorious melanin
ps/smoh
