It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship and respect that makes unhappy marriages.... Isn't that the truth?
To most they forget of ‘why’ they got married in the first place. This is something I so believe!!
That to me is why so many marriages fail. Without friendship the relationship has no "glue" to hold it together!
You were friends before you took that ‘big step’, so, why did it have to stop? The very first mistake most did/does was not continued friendship and take things for granted.
Compliments to me is very important, be it about my cooking, what I have on or the work I’ve done. NEVER STOP giving compliments. I like being appreciated, so we do the same to our husband.
We need to keep the spirit lifted in order to keep moving on, listen to each other’s and hear what they really say in between their words. When you listen with your intuition you will hear the truth. OR better still tell him how you felt, I always do....
Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you wants to do....TOGETHER!
Follow your heart, but be quiet and still for a while, if you don’t know what to do. Ask questions, and then feel the answer. Learn to trust your heart.
When everything seems to be going against you, remember that the airplane takes off against the wind, not with it.
Believe in yourself and all that you are. Know that there is something inside you that is greater than any obstacle. Be like a child. Walk in love, not fear as you often heard people say.
Be daring, be different, be impractical, be anything that will assert integrity of purpose and imaginative vision against the play-it-safer, the creatures of the commonplace, the slaves of the ordinary. I am NO ordinary.
Uncertainty and mystery are energies of life. Don't let them scare you unduly, for they keep boredom at bay and spark creativity. Be like those of light, that’s the ray of happiness, are colourless when unbroken.
If you want to meet someone who can fix any situation you don't like, who can bring you happiness in spite of what others say or believe, look in a mirror, then say this magic word: "Hello"
Honesty.... Better to fail with honour than succeed by fraud, I despise dishonesty more than anything; only cowards and truly selfish people hide from and don’t share the truth. I say own it in truth!! Be true to yourself...
The moment you think about giving up, think of the reason why you held on so long. You are never given a wish without also being given the power to make it come true. You may have to work for it, however.
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