Don't find fault. Find remedy! (Henry Ford)
Faults can be glaring, as if a giant spotlight is shining on them. We ,make progress when we deliberately open our focus to include all the resources available to remedy our faults.
Brainstorming, we consider any possibility in the hope of finding one that is feasible.
Then, we give ourselves permission to experiment. It will take trail and error. We will learn from mistakes, but, even while making mistakes, we have broken free of the narrow focus on the fault alone.
So when you see a problem in part of your life, be quick to look for ways to remedy it, rather than focus solely on the problem.
note to AH
