A bitter woman complains that all men are the same. A wise woman stops choosing men on looks alone and starts looking deeper into a man's true character.

We all have to deal with the consequences of our decisions and our actions. 
This is not being taught to people today, thus they make careless decisions, thinking only of the moment, not the ongoing consequences of their actions. 
People must learn to think ahead. 
Think rationally about your choices before you act.

When you change the way you think, you will change your decisions and your actions, and the consequences that you have to deal with as well. 
If you don't like your current life, it is time to look at your past choices. 
When you change your thoughts and your choices, you change your life. 

ps/smoh